This Blows!

by mohammadali

Question by SoccerGoalie21 <3: How come everyone in middle school seems to be into this stuff?
Like, I am in 7th grade. Ok, so yes. I want someone to like me, but I will live on without a bf (and I have my whole life)
But, all of the girls that I know are all into boys, and even worse drama. I have a lot of guys as just friends, and I do like someone but I am not wishing on every star that he will ask me out cuz we are still young! Drama is something I try to avoid all the time. Like, it just stresses me out more than I need to be! So I avoid it, but my friend is always like ” I am talking about gossip” (repeats) or “Oh, I have to go tell (so and so) what I heard about (another so and so) I mean, it’s sooo annoying.
And trying to conform with everyone else. I mean, I know a lot of us do it. A lot of us talk/text the same way, dress the same way, act the same way, etc. Because we are afraid to be made fun of or not fit it. I would lie to say I don’t conform at all. But, some people (including some guys) change who they are around certain people. That gets on my nerves because sometimes they will treat me very bad when they are around some people, but nice when we are alone/with other people.
So how come almost everyone in middle school is like this? I don’t mean to generalize it, sorry if I come off this way. I am just wondering why it seems like the majority of my school seems to be like this.
Thanks!!
Ya, like some of my friends could care less about that stuff! My 1 other friend doess..bad and school and does barely anything about it…lolz.

Best answer:

Answer by Justine -
it’s the exact same in high school. it NEVER ENDS. lol jk. but it is annoying. my stupid friends kept saying ‘jk’ and ‘lol’ and now i’m stuck with it. it is really annoying when people are fakes. there’s people like that everywhere. maybe you should make a couple new friends, who are down to earth people and are fun to be around. focus more on school than drama or boyfriends. the people with drama and bfs/gfs have a lot of crap going on, and they don’t really do well in school. everything depends on your education, not who’s going out with your friend. focus more on that, and less on the social crap. my friends are failing almost all of their classes, and it’s really sad because they’re nice people, but there’s so much drama going on, that they don’t focus on what’s most important. good luck!

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